The deepest desire all of us share is to love and be loved. Yet, often times in this new and “interesting” world of dating and relationships finding love can seem impossible.
Yet, I’m here to tell you it isn’t.
Although professionally I specialize in trauma as a hypnotherapist, I see many clients who want to work on their relationship confidence or getting over past relationships, which let’s admit, can sometimes be pretty traumatic.
Typically hypnotists are known to clean up the past or give a perspective shift in the present, yet more and more I have been seeing clients who want to work on manifestation, or in other words creating a more desirable future.
I had a client one time come into my office and tell me that in one year she wants to manifest an abundance of wealth, be married to the love of her life, and be free of work obligations.
I looked at her and said, “Whoaaa, slow down, let me see who it is I’m working with.”
She was very young and it was a lot to ask for in one shot! Yet, as a believer in the concept that we are participators in creating our own reality I happily agreed to work with her on her manifesting journey.
What I discovered as I began working with her was that she came from of a bit of a difficult past colored with abuse as a child. As I learned this, it became clear to me that although she wanted all of these things in her life, until she fully believed that she DESERVED them, we wouldn’t get very far in her work.
I now fully employ that belief with everyone who asks me about how to attract the love of our lives. It starts with a deep SELF-LOVE.
Ok, I know it sounds a bit cliché, yet, really, truly, until we believe we deserve to be loved in the way we want to be loved we will attract the love that we think is best suited for us. Sometimes, unfortunately, that love isn’t want we want, yet is all our psyche can handle.
The biggest life lesson there is to learn is how to love ourselves. All the good and bad relationships that come our way are here to teach us just that.
When you look at all of your past relationships as lessons to learn you can begin to see even the worst ones as blessings.
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So, first thing to draw in the love you desire is to define who you are and what you want/need. Then you need to do some deep introspection and cleaning and clearing either on your own or with the guidance of a coach. Hey, we all need help sometimes!
EVERYONE deserves to be loved in the way they want to be. Yet, first we need to feel safe and secure about who it is we are and when we are confident in the beautiful beings that we are we can fully recognize just how deeply it is we should be loved.
So, here is to learning about yourself and getting out there to find the kindest, most caring, beautiful partner that is your other half.
For more information about manifestation, feel free to email me about a 5 step guide on how to manifest your best life! It would be my pleasure to share my information with you.
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Danna Pycher is a certified Neuro-Linguistic Hypnotherapist specializing in chronic illness and trauma. She is also a motivational speaker, author, and life coach. She is passionate about helping people get back to who they really are so that they can live and work in their full potential. For further information you can check out her website @ bttcoaching.com or email her @ firstname.lastname@example.org.